subject of Assumeing

why is it that a lot of people ASSUME , lets break that word down Ass/ U/ Me , see in using Assume you are making an Ass out of you and me , Im NOT an Ass , dont know about yourself but Im not ,might act like one sometimes. people assume that because you might talk to someone that has a reputation of causing trouble that you are the same by just talking to them, NOT always the case , or you like talking to someone but then they get it in their head that you want to take them off somewhere and cybersex their pixelated brains out ,, NO not that either , dont have to do that I HAVE SOME I LOVE VERY MUCH. this is all a form of judgeing , your judgeing someone for your own thoughts you have about a certain situation or what you think is on their mind to do. Dont do this if Im going to be judged on anything then judge me for my characther , for things you have known Ive done , judge me for my smart mouth judge me for what you see not for what you think I want or what you think that I might do. To me these are qualitys about yourself that you think that others will be the same way , remember we are NOT all the same. what a boreing world if that were the case. Someone once got mad at me because I reacted to a situation in my way , I asked a question he gave an answer , case closed I walked out of the room to finish what I was doing , then he comes out upset thinking that I wanted him to follow me and continue the conversaton , repeating to me that I had displayed the classic signs of a woman wanting to be petted. He then told me that a case study had been done and my body language had displayed all the signs. which this in turn really did cause me to go into a rage ,because in the first case Ive never been in a dadjim case study,nor on a couch of any kind talking to a doctor of that degree so HOW can someone that doesnt Know me know how Im going to react to a situation ,, Body lanugage tells us that crossing our arms across our chest displays a sign of feeling threaten , or putting our hands on our hips displays a sign of aggression ,, I do this all the time even when there is NOone around me , why cause my arms arn't long enough to reach up my ass, ITS because I dont have anything else to do with my arms while Im standing waiting for my dog to finish her business ,, gees come on now what am I feeling threatend by , the Grass , air , trees ,, gees , now do you see what I mean .you can not assume nor can you judge someone on how you think they should or shouldnt react or act.

Born of Landii Mermaid and Wolfrider elf ,she lived many years in the land of her father , with the tratits from her father she has some of the abilites of the Wolfrider elfs , but these are limited due to the fact that she is mixed. most of her magic abilities are limited. and because of her fathers race being hybirds theirselves they are mortal. she can be killed but hopes to live a very long life. She can and does bond with animals this is called Animal bonding which gives her the empathic or telepathic connection with animals Mainly wolves. she can not start fires and control them like those members of her fathers tribe, but she did learn the Freezing stare, this has gotten her out of a lot of trouble this ability gives her the power to paralize an animal or intelligent being . she can not fly like other members of her fathers tribe but she can when angered to that point Black send. in which she sends in such a manner to cause psychic pain. there are so many of the wolfrider abilitys that she did not receive but with what she does have she can protect herself. Being able to live many years on land is due to the fact of her mothers race .The Landii Mermaids have the ability to transform from a creature with no legs to one with legs. she recieved from her mother a singing voice that can enchant the ears of a god. unlike her mothers people she can not raise and clam storms at will , the times she has tried ended in disaster so she doesnt try this. many belive that the mermaids can breath underwater but this is not the case , they are like dolphians they have to rise to the surface for air, but they do have the ability to stay under longer then humans or other races, she can swim in any body of water be it ocean , sea , lakes and rivers,. Mermaids dont have any magical abilites in themselves as many believe that they do , what magic ability they do have is most of the time in the form of an object , like a mirror , comb that is worn in their hair or a necklace or just a simple sea shell , they can make potions but tchebbe has never tried to make potions , she just might start , although she is a great swimmer she can not Speed swim like her mothers people and this with in its self gives her the chance of being caught and ate if she is not careful , there are many that have been known to capture mermaids and eat them , and tchebbe does not want to end up as the special guest menu on someones supper plate. Sometimes you might see tchebbe wear a necklace around her neck that was given to her by her mother when she was a baby right before her mother died as was told to her by her father . What if any powers this necklace holds tchebbe does not know she has never tried to channel to it , to her its just a keepsake from her mother. mostly tchebbe is a happy go lucky person that does love to tease and might be caught flirting sometimes. She sometimes goes off by herself so no one can find her to swim in the rivers and lay upon the rocks to dry during these times she is very vunerable and if perchance someone happend upon her she would be at their mercy if they caught her napping .
the faster she dries the faster she gets her land legs back.
referance : http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/elves_(elfquest)
http://h20.wikia.com/wiki/mermaid
http://www.Trynne.com/species html.

Base Race: mermaid
Race name :halfelf ( wolfrider elf)
Alginment : netural

Bitch in use

Someone asked for everyone's difinintion of the word Bitch , I wrote what my meaning of the term was but then thought about it How did this word become a slang word used to discribe many different things about a woman and in some cases a man. I myself have been called this many times in the past , NOT for the way I acted , but because some felt that I was takening their job away from them when in reality I just wanted to work and provide for my daughters ( single mother ) I never got into the industry to prove a point, but I did have to prove myself over and over that I could do the job and when I stopped , I can proudly say that I finished with a driveing recored of safty that would surpass many. Each day I would hear the word " Bitch" throwed at me " Bitch go back home " Bitch your taking our job away from us " Bitch this Bitch that " Finally I came back at them " I would rather be a Bitch then a Dog , A dog will smell anythings Ass and a Bitch wont" this little phrase finally shut most of them up .. why you asked because I was referring to them as the counter part of the female Bitch ,, the Dog , Why because most over the road drivers are out there for months at a time and most do not have the self disapline and would pay anything for sexual favors , they knew I knew this , To them I was a Bitch because as one difinition puts it " a strong or assertive woman, one who might make men feel threatened.
now for the rest , I found this information at http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bitch
the word Bitch has been a derogatory term for women since the 14th century . the word Bitch comes from the 1150 word bicche, which was developed from the old english word bicce, and also may have been derived from the old Icelandic word bikkja for " female dog " its earliest slang meaning mainly referred to the sexual behavior of women .early applications were to a promiscuous or sensual woman, a metaphorical extension of the behavior of a bitch in heat. Herein lies the original point of the powerful insult son of a bitch, found as biche sone ca. 1330 in Arthur and Merlin ... while in a spirited exchange in the Chester Play (ca. 1400) a character demands: “Whom callest thou queine, skabde bitch?” (“Who are you calling a whore, you miserable bitch?”). Bitch remained a strong insult through the ninteenth century.
In the 20th century , " Bitch " has become less vulgar . The term can refer to a person or thing that is very difficult .' However, it is still derogatory and anti-woman by default.
it can also be used as a self -description as an unfaily difficult person.
In modern feminism " bitch " has varied reappropriated meanings that may connote a strong female ( anti -stereotype of the weak submissive woman ) cunning ( equal to males in mental guile) or can be a backhanded compliment for someone who has excelled in an achievement .
in each culture pop culture and Hip hop culture the term Bitch has lost a lot of its insult.
Now in the reference to Men :

When used to describe a male, "bitch" may also confer the meaning of subordinate, especially to another male, as in prison. Generally, this term is used to indicate that the person is acting outside the confines of their gender roles, such as when women are assertive or aggressive, or when men are passive or servile.

In the context of prison sexuality, a bitch is a lower-hierarchy prisoner, typically physically weak or vulnerable, who is dominated by more senior prisoners and forced to adopt a servile role. According to convention, these inmates are used as sexual slaves or traded as personal property. ^[16]

A "prison bitch" can also refer to any subservient entity, as in the Douglas Rushkoff description of a Microsoft - Yahoo partnership: "Yahoo is merely hooking up with the most alpha male company it can still find in order to survive. Microsoft will soon turn Yahoo into its prison bitch, and this won’t be pretty." ^{[17] that was easier to copy and paste ,, thehee but hope everyone enjoys reading and now we know where the Slang term of Bitch started ....}

A few pictures from our Vacation

the cat on the fence , Blak thought it was stuffed and put there , he called it his " Cailf exbhit state of mind, until I called the cat " Snowball" and it came to be petted. He asked me if I knew the cat ,, nope just figured that was its name since it was pure white. thehehe
this is in the Cherokee Indian Reservation over to the left is where I want our wedding to be held where the two streams come together.



Boy I would say this Duck sure had a lot of babies to contend with better her then me
these were made from the window of our flight

yeap as I said would be easier for me to learn Ballet , then him takeing pity on my femininity and getting rid of the Dead rat, he hands ME the BAG !!! gees dont he know that there are somethings that a MAN MUST do for his woman and I think this is one of those things , tehehehhe , He tells me to put it in the bag drop it over the side and when WE ,NOT He ,,, go out then the bag will be picked up and carried to the trash outside , but here again , when I take my dog out for a walk I will be expected to carry the dead rat bag down to the trash , YEAH RIGHT!!! I brought up the fact that I would be the one that will go out the door first, he goes he wasnt thinking of that fact ,, Yeah Right , thehehe he is NOT fooling me, "faints " where has chiverly gone in this day and age .

Ive wrote about this Dude before , well 4 am this morning I am awake ( because we came back from a little walking trip and laid down and didnt get up again till around 8pm) any way I go out on the porch to have a smoke ,, yes Im still smoking , and what do I find laying there right near the sliding screen , a present from Dude !!!!! as we all know cats , it wasnt the kind that most of us are thrilled about getting either , Im just glad it wasnt ALIVE !!!!!!!!! but still , it is nice to know that even if I dont eat RAT'S !!! that he thought enough of me to bring me something he had caught , knowning full well this ole stray cat doesnt get much in the way of food anyway , I gave him some Cat food for his present , but he is just as content to sit on the bannister while I pet his head , or if I sit down he climbs up in my lap to be petted , thehehhehe NOW the Trick is , in getting BLAK to remove the Dead RAT , I might have a better chance of learning Ballet I dont know we will see , going to act all freaked out about me doing it so he will take pity on me and get rid of the Dead rat for me ,, tehhhehe

Back from a week of vacation in Maggie Valley N.C. the time there was great , I finally got to get some fried green tomatos and I fixed Blak some fried potatos and ramps , thehee Momma wasnt too pleased about the ramps because they stank the whole house up, they smell really bad, but are very good , something like a gralice and onion crossed. we had homemade icecream at my aunts house which I havent had in a long time, My family couldnt get over the fact of how much weight I had gained ,, tehehheh my poor uncle didnt even know who I was until I started talking , he then looked at me in such a surprised look and yelled " Girl Somebody's Done a Super Sized you " I thought we all were going to fall off the porch laughing soo hard. for once in untold number of years all my siblings were together , and boy has time played havoc on us , tehheeh NOw thats what happens when you get older , we looked like the bigbutt family , I couldnt help but laugh at how much we each have changed and then not changed, the rest of them always try to outtalk each other , me I can never get a word in edgewise with them so I stay quite , but all and all it was a great vacation , well not including the day Blak and I got ticks all over us , I was about to strip in the towtruck drivers truck , ( Momma's car broke down on a mountain top where we were looking at a house for sale ) when we got to the grarge Blak wouldnt check to see if I had ticks on my butt , I know I embrassed him , but them things are Creepy and carry rocky mountain spotted fever and lyme deasies , I didnt want one on me Anywhere , theheh we freaked out for two days , but I think we got them all off , teheh but the Blackberrys were good anyway